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Style, please

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Because when you look good, you feel good! ______ πŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎ ______ Me and my friends have this conversation quite often. We uplift each other with words and speak straight to each other's spirits but at the end of the conversation, we make sure to account for what we've done for ourselves!! ______ πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯° ______ In an effort to maximize my self love efforts, I did a whole wardrobe do over. My closet was full of clothes that I either liked but never really wore, bought because one day I would be the right body size to fit in it, or I bought it because I wanted the courage to change my style but never actually went through with it. The end result of years of shopping was a closet full of things that weren't "ME". πŸ₯΄πŸ˜£πŸ˜ž πŸ§₯πŸ§¦πŸ‘—πŸ‘šπŸ‘™ Piece by piece, I changed that. When I bought a new shirt, I found an old one that had to go. If it didn't fit "ME" today, I got rid of it. I noticed that the clothes on my body felt increasing more comfortable as

Unity

Marriage is about committing to growth. People tend to commit to who the person is at the time without allotting room for change......just sharing my thoughts. I'd like to think I know something about marriage considering it's something I want. Considering it's something I did before....for all the wrong reasons. But that's just it. Next time will have to be right. Because I've done it wrong so many times. Relationship after relationship down the drain. Time I'll never get back but of course it's all with a smile. It's like cutting all your hair off for a fresh start. Next time I'll have more experience. Next time I'll have more understanding. Next time I'll be patient. Patiently waiting.....but there really is no such thing as wrong. There's just either you tried or you didn't. I didn't try before. I ran. I cowered. I hid. I pretended. Fake smiles. Forced happiness. Shrunken personalities. Everything except a good ol&

John Wick

You... uh..."working" again? John Wick: No, just sorting some stuff out. Except.....I am working again. Working harder than ever. In more ways than I expected. I'm still trying to figure out where I found the time but I don't dwell on it because I am BEYOND grateful that I found the time. Found the time to meditate daily. Found the time to say my affirmations daily. Found the time to write BOOK NUMBER 3 ((shameless plug😏😏)). Found the time to manage 3 IG accounts && continue to share the rawest pieces of me, little by little. Found the time to raise my child. Found the time to live life with him. Appreciate the sun and fun with him. Found the time to have mommy friends. Found the time for playdates and health and sleep. Found the time to eat ((because moms rarely have that)). I even found time to myself. This post was for gratitude and reflection and a moment to pat myself on the back and give myself a hug. I found the time to find